N T Shows, Sr Kids
as Remembered by Rheba Kramer Mitchell
Viola Shows was the daughter of Newsom T. Shows, Sr. She could fish,
and deer and turkey hunt as well as any man. When she was young, her
friends called her "Joy." In later life she went by "Vi." She got a
job teaching at 18 and contributed to the household accounts.
Vi had three brothers John R., the oldest, Newton, and N. T., Jr.
Her nickname was Vi. John R. was a very courtly, jolly man. Newton
was a very hard working oil filed man who loved to fox hunt and
always had a large group of foxhounds. N. T., Jr. treated his nieces
and nephews like they were people. He served on a Navy destroyer
escort ship in World War II. He died in a car accident at the age of
36.
Lucille was Viola’s oldest sister. She was nicknamed ‘Cille. She had
Newsom, Sr.' s laughing twinkling eyes. She loved to dance and
taught most of the younger family members to dance. ‘Cille had her
own beauty shop.
Lucille married Jeff Donaldson and after having three sons, divorced
him. One was Bubber, Stanislaus Arcade, no less a very brilliant
loving boy who died in the Army in Assam Valley, India of Typhus
Pneumonia two weeks before he was due home from World War II. Later,
‘Cille married Buddy Jones, a member of Jimmy Davis band and a
country western singer. One of Buddy’s "hits" was "Alice from
Dallas" which he wrote about ‘Cille and Vi’s sister. Buddy was a
policeman and a very low key person. He helped and befriended people
from the poorest to the richest. Lucille commented late in her life
that, "I’ve had a good life with Buddy. But looking back, and
knowing what I know now, since I wasn’t abused, I think I’d probably
stay with Jeff if I had it to do all over again. Each marriage has
its own set of problems. Changing husbands doesn’t rid one of
problems. Just changes the problems."
Irene, Vi’s next sister lived in Dallas. She and her husband Jimmy
James had a cleaning and pressing shop near Fitzhugh St., "the rich
part of town," now run down low rent apartments. She was hard
working and cheerful and loved dogs. She and Jim were good at
training dogs.
Gracie also called Alice or Maude, always a personality kid, a smart
dresser, up on the latest songs, etc. Gracie married several times
She visited family often and was a big supportive influence on many
of her nieces and nephews.
Lonette, the youngest sister, was soft spoken and low key. She loved
to read. Her husband, J. H. Welch, was a semi pro basketball player
at the time of their marriage. He later was a railroad engineer.
All the children, except Newton, were well read, though Vi was the
only one with any college. They always spoke correct English, kept
up with things and were all very bright.
as Remembered by Lydia Donaldson Matthews
Once we visited Ed and Aunt WaWa (Viola) at Ben Field and Ed
gave me a baby lamb. I actually got to take it back to Houston.
I will always remember visits there. We crossed the bridge and
opened a gate to get to the house. The bayou was in the front
and we always wanted to go riding in the boat. We were always
told there were gar fish that was so big that it could eat a
man, so we quickly changed our minds!
My dad Raby, was a great man. He had a very high IQ and could
have done anything. At one time he even was raised by Grandma &
Grandpa Shows and also Uncle Ed and WaWa. There is a value there
in our heritage that we can't replace. Their values and their
fun and laughter. I have thought how my dad would have loved all
of this internet communication. He died of Parkinsons on Dec. 3,
1995.
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