Grandparents
Time with Florence and Newsom Shows
as Remembered by Rheba Kramer Mitchell
The grandkids remember Grandma Florence expected the kitchen floor
to be swept after each meal. She expected things to be neat and
orderly. She made biscuits every morning with no recipe. Grand kids
helped her feed the chickens and then watched Grandpa Newsom milk
the two cows. In the kitchen was a sideboard with gravity hoppers
for flour and corn meal. They were triggered like the ice tea
machines in restaurants today, by pushing against a devise to
release the contents. Florence would never cut out her biscuits,
she’d pinch the dough of, and turn it quickly two or three times in
her hand and turn a a perfectly formed large, flaky biscuit. An art
that is lost by most of us today.
After moving to Melville they had no need for a car. They could walk
anywhere. Newsom had a little red wagon he would load with milk,
eggs, and butter to deliver to their regular customers by pulling it
behind him. One of his favorite sayings was "I would rather be
hanged in Melville than die a natural death anywhere else."
Florence’s saying was, "pretty is as pretty does" meaning actions
were more important than looks. She also said, "Beauty knows no
pain." If you want to be beautiful you have to suffer a price.
as Remembered by Lydia Donaldson Matthews
I have vivid memories of Grandpa and Grandma Shows home in Melville.
As a child we visited often and some memories stand out more than
others. When we had big family reunions we would be drawn to the
railroad track that ran along the banks of the river and behind
their home. We would place coins on the track only to watch the
trains pass and run and find them. I remember the reunion when
(Little Ed) son of Ed Kramer (my great uncle) flew over the house
causing it to rock. It was so thrilling to know that he could do
that!
I also remember when Grandpa Shows died and he lay in the coffin in
the living room and I wondered how all those relatives could be
eating rice and gravy while he lay there dead in the other room. As
a child I had never experienced much death much less having the body
there at home, something I will never experience again. I remember
Grandma Shows and how soft her body was and how she always smelled
so sweet. My grandma Lucille was the oldest of the bunch and she
often told me stories of how her parents had lost a set of twins and
she had to bury them. She even showed me where.
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